August 13, 2006

A Hodge-Podge

Filed under: Uncategorized - abcmomma @ 11:52 pm

Tomorrow is the first day of school—hooray! I’m excited, but also nervous for Bud who will start kindergarten. His clothes for the week are put in nice daily piles in his drawer, he has his backpack, the alarms are set, he can say his ABCs and count to 13. He’s all ready, but I’m not sure I’m ready to let him go yet. I feel like I’ve forgotten to tell him something important.

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The Dish Netw@rk customer service man made me cry — good tears.

Since dh quit his steady-paycheck, nice-benefits, normal-hours job to start a new commission-based, self-employing, no-benefits career last year, things have gotten a little tight. I’m not whining he left that job, it’s the best thing he’s ever done for himself, and he’s so happy. I understood that income, if any, would be low for the first year or so, and we prepared accordingly. Of course, cutting back our monthly bills was part of our preparations, and our subscription to Dish Netw@rk was one of the first things to go. But then the World Cup games started around Father’s day, and I renewed our subscription for a few months as a gift for my dh, the mega soccer fan.

Saturday was the last day of our billing cycle, thus, time to cancel Dish Netw@rk again. I had fallen in love with a few shows on TLC and HGTV and Ant was so excited to be able to watch Pokemon on Cart00n Netw@rk (Ash is just about ready to get his umpteenth medal thingy). So sadly, I picked up the phone and go through the numbers to talk to a customer service person. The first guy I talked to tried to get me to downgrade to the cheapest package, the $20 family deal. It just wasn’t worth it, though. We already had the second cheapest package without local channels for only $5 more per month. Since he couldn’t change my mind, he transferred me to a specialist. This second guy was smooth. He flattered me, saying he noticed how we have been awesome customers for the past 5 years. He empathized with me, saying he understands how we need to cut back when things get tight. But then he suprised me, saying: "Would it help if I gave you two free months?" I asked what’s the catch–do we have to sign some contract to pledge our loyalty for another year? Will you just bill me later? What?

He says there’s no catch, they just want to keep our business, and we can cancel if things don’t get better in a few months.

I . was . floored. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced customer service like this. Tears came to my eyes as I graciously accepted his offer. Thank you Dish Netw@rk customer service man!

Tears for free TV–I didn’t know it was that important to me.

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I found out today that a grudge has been held against me for some insensitive, sarcastic comment I made while I was trying to joke and tease with someone last December (IRL). I feel so bad, first, for making the comment, and second, that they hated me and felt they couldn’t talk to me about it for 8 months, until now

I realize that I do say too many sarcastic things in my efforts to be funny. I hope that if I have offended any one of you, that you will please forgive me. I’m sorry.

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I hope the first day of kindergarten goes just smashingly! I can’t wait to hear alllll about your little scholar!

Comment by Amber — August 14, 2006 @ 7:28 am

How exciting for Bud! And you! You can spend more one-on-one time with Cutie!

I know how it feels to have to tighten the belt when DH goes to self-employed mode. It is so scary. Little things like free T.V. are such a blessing.

I had a friend in my ward once that would tell me how it was all of the time. Once I said something dumb to her and she told me right then “That was a jerky thing to say. You were rude.” I realized it, appreciated it and apologized for it and we all moved on with our lives. Why can’t we all be like that?
It is so hard when you hurt someone’s feelings unknowingly and they don’t tell you. How can you make amends? You are so sweet and it wasn’t done maliciously so don’t be too hard on yourself.

Comment by Stephanie — August 14, 2006 @ 8:19 am

I hope Bud has a great day. I’m impressed that you didn’t have cry to get such a nice offer. That’s really too bad that she held a grudge for so long. Maybe coming to you about it will allow her to move on.

Comment by Valarie — August 14, 2006 @ 11:27 am

How wise of you to handle your unintended hurt as you are. I too worry about offending people unintentionally. If you figure out the answer to it all…let me know.

Comment by oshee — August 15, 2006 @ 12:36 am

So how was the first day of school??? I can’t imagine sending my kids off to school!

Way to go dish man! Isn’t it awesome when a company actually shows you that they appreciate your business.

I have often wondered how I may come across to people and worry that I may offend others. From what I know of you, you are such a sweet person. I can’t wait to get to know you better!!!

Comment by Jami — August 15, 2006 @ 9:40 am

Oh man, I am sorry for you about the sarcastic comment. I have the same problem from time to time. I also think taking offense is a waste. My mother in law said that we should avoid taking offense, and that if someone calls us a fat ugly toad to our face we should assume we heard them wrong, and move on.

Comment by onewomansworld — August 15, 2006 @ 11:44 am

What an exciting day tomorrow! I’ll be thinking of Bud and YOU!

Sorry about the grudge issue. We all say stupid stuff. She should have said something a looong time ago, though.

Comment by Karen — August 15, 2006 @ 1:19 pm

It’s really not your fault that you didn’t know for 8 months. I can’t even imagine you ever saying something to hurt someone.

Go Bud!

Comment by Beth — August 16, 2006 @ 11:15 am

wow, there really are good people in the world! I can’t wait for school to start!

Comment by amerimeximadre — August 16, 2006 @ 3:30 pm

Whoo hoo for free TV!

Comment by Alicia — August 18, 2006 @ 8:27 am

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